Facts Speak Louder 系列—何謂刺蝟困境

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Facts Speak Louder 系列—何謂刺蝟困境

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刺蝟困境
Hedgehog’s dilemma

希望在人際關係中獲得親密感,但同時又希望彼此保持適當距離的矛盾心理狀態。

刺蝟困境又稱「豪豬困境 Porcupine’s dilemma」。現代的人際關係中有太多算計,為了不想傷害別人,也不想被傷害,於是把自己孤立起來,漸漸地變成刺蝟,難以讓人與人之間建立親密感,也害怕和他人過於靠近。現代的一人家庭數量逐漸增加,就是因為很多人害怕和他人建立人際關係,覺得很難維繫彼此心理上的距離。

德國哲學家阿圖爾‧叔本華Arthur Schopenhauer,在西元1851年發表的著作《附錄與補遺 Parerga und Paralipomena》中,有個關於刺蝟的寓言故事。在一個寒冷的冬天,有幾隻刺蝟聚集在一起互相取暖,當彼此越來越靠近的時候,身上的刺就會刺傷對方,然後互相分開。但因為天氣實在太冷了,刺蝟們又再次聚集,於是相同的情況反覆發生,在經過幾次的經驗後,刺蝟們終於找到最適當的距離。雖然現實中的刺蝟是將沒有刺的頭互相靠攏,藉此維持體溫或一起睡覺。但由此寓言可了解,人們在嘗試過多次的失誤後,會找到最適合的解決方案。

而人際關係中的刺蝟,想互相靠近,但身上的刺又會造成雙方受傷。為了維持適當的距離而產生的「禮節」,則能夠讓雙方感受到適當的溫度,卻不會刺傷雙方的距離。

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